Fellow Christians, I need your help!?

I agree with Dog Sneeze. When you and your husband were married, you two became one. If someone bashes you, your husband should feel just as hurt that someone is hurting his wife. It is his responsibility to tell the person who is verbally attacking you to lay off. You could tell your husband that if he is not going to protect you, you will refuse to be put in that situation of having to defend yourself constantly.